The Insider's Guide To Getting Along With Your Boss


Understand, the fact that your boss, like yourself, is a human
being. Like everyone else, bosses come in all shapes and sizes.
Like you, he has ambitions, aspirations, and dreams. Some he
will achieve, others he won't. Some bosses are good managers,
others bad, but most fall somewhere in the middle range.

Unless you're working for a very small company, your boss
probably has superiors of his own - that no doubt can, and do,
drive him crazy at times. What it boils down to more than
anything else is, how well you and your boss can deal with the
emotional roller coaster of everyday life, and perhaps most
importantly, how each of you view your job.

To get along with you boss, or other people for that matter, you
have to know how to understand and react to personality traits,
get inside your boss's head. In short, you need to develop your
human relations skills.

This does not mean becoming a ""yes" man and always siding with
your boss no matter how dumb a mistake he makes, or how big a
fool he makes of himself. Your boss may appreciate such blind
devotion, but unless you are willing to drop anchor and never
advance up the corporate ladder, you also need to know when to
put some distance between you immediate supervisor, and the
powers that be, because if your boss really goofs-up - you may
be shown the door at the same time your boss is!

Back to getting along with the boss, you of course need to get
on and stay on his "good side," in short become a team player
That means becoming the type of an employee everyone would like
to have work for them. Someone with a positive outlook, someone
who's also friendly, loyal, tolerant, compassionate,
understanding, courteous and supportive. Someone who can take,
and follow orders. Someone who can get the job done. Someone who
knows when to speak-up, and when to keep his mouth shut.

Regardless of what you think of your boss, the first thing you
should learn, is his style of supervising. The two extremes of
management style, are a boss who enjoys playing the part of a
military leader, where he, or she barks orders that must be
followed exactly without question, or the boss who maintains a
very low profile, giving employees broad guidelines and then
disappearing. Fortunately, most bosses fall somewhere in between
the two extremes, or little actual work would ever get done!

If you have the type of personality that demands you must have
very specific orders or you're "afraid you won't do it right,"
you better have a boss who is willing to spend the time watching
your every step.

On the other hand, if you must be left to your own devices to
make things work to get the job done and resent the boss looking
over your shoulder or constantly "picking on you," you better
have the type of boss who is willing to give you enough room to
do your own thing.

Either way, if you are stuck with the "wrong kind" of boss it
will be a real source of irritation that frequently ends in you
not seeing eye to eye with your supervisor.

If you can't change, or at least try, you would be better off
finding employment elsewhere - because the boss isn't going to
change his management style to please you!

It also pays dividends to learn what your boss likes and
dislikes, and then adapt what you do to suit his personality and
management style. All bosses expect their workers to know how to
do their job, and to get it do it correctly, and on time, but
problems are bound to come up in any business. One thing that
can really "set off" your boss is not handling problems like "he
thinks" they should be handled.

Remember, he's the boss, so be sure to learn how he wants you to
communicate problems. Does he prefer you put it in writing,
arrange a meeting, or just drop-in his office anytime you have a
question? Use common sense. If the boss is in a bad mood, or
otherwise having a bad day, he's probably not in the proper
frame of mind to listen to any new suggestions, or for you to
ask to go home early, take a day off, or get a raise.

Besides consideration for the boss's mood, and receptiveness on
any particular day to listen to new ideas, the employee who
thinks he has a good idea for changing an operating procedure,
should always re-think his idea through from every angle before
presenting it to the boss.

You should give your boss the feeling of confidence that you're
a team player and you want to be the one he or she can depend on
to make his or her job easier. You should try to figure out what
your boss's goals are, then help him to reach those goals
through your contributions as a good employee.

Basically, the good employee is the one who is ready and in the
mood to go to work at the designated time.

- A good employee knows his job, inside and out, and if faced with
something new, puts in the necessary time on his own, to try and
figure things out, then presents options to the boss, who
decides if any changes in policy or procedures are needed.

- A good employee doesn't take time off except for real illness or
emergencies. He's the one who does his work, gets the job done,
and is proud of his contribution to the overall success of the
company he works for. He's one who's ready to help a fellow
employee or newcomer without having to be asked to do so.

- A good employee lets the boss know that he's completed his work,
and is free to assist him or her with special projects. He's the
one who doesn't camp out at the water cooler or coffee machine
engaging his fellow workers in idle gossip. He's the one who
sets up his work area either for the person on the next shift,
or so that he'll be ale to go right to work when he comes in the
next day.



All of these things and more, are the basic ingredients to the
definition of a good employee, and being a good employee is the
best way of getting along with the boss! The practice of good
human relations and displaying the virtues of the ideal
employee, requires the constant use of one's common sense for
ultimate success. On needs to be aware of the boss's
sensitivities, and eccentricities. If he bristles at any hint of
criticism of how he does things, he needs a subordinate who'll
be willing to work under less then ideal conditions.

So, the bottom-line to getting along with any boss is first be a
good employee yourself. Master human relations. Understand that
your boss is a human being just like yourself - with a job to
do, and bosses of his own to answer to. So do everything you can
to make his or her job easier. It will go a long way to making
your job easier and having a good working relationship with the
boss!

If you can master the all important "people skills," someday you
may enjoy the power and prestige of being the boss, and enjoying
all the perks and other trappings of being in charge!



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